Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Open and Shut

I have a trunk in my house that was the Little Grandma's. This is where the best things in my house live. My rabbit and my doll, my Mom's teddy bear and robe, one of the Little Grandma's nightgowns, a 12" cigar I gave to my Grandpa when I was small, my wedding dress, one of Zach's outfits and toy he played with, drawings for a restaurant that Dad was going to open called 'Robyn's', my High IQ name banner and a few letters and random things. Without me, all of these treasures lose context.

As most of you know, Stan's Mom has lived with us for the past few years and has dementia. She moved in with us a few months after Mom. As she unpacks her trunk, I feel like we need to give context to these memories.

So, here we go.

On Sunday, Bev remembered that her Dad always had life savers in his pocket when they went to church. The Minister would always ask if "Norm had finished passing out the candy" before he started the service.

But tonight, the trunk lid is closed and we can't get past where we live, this is not my robe and when will Stan be home.

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